Teaching both good and bad makes for good citizens!
Parents, teachers, intellectuals, and educators should provide proper guidance to shape India's bright future in the world. Being afraid of undesirable incidents and being hesitant to address issues with children, fearing they might follow the same path, can lead to dangerous consequences in the future. Over-pampering children is not good. Parents should be very careful about their children. Nowadays, many students are resorting to suicide for various reasons, such as not being given a phone, not being allowed to use a laptop, being told to study well, being scolded by parents, being reprimanded by the principal, or being hit by a teacher. We keep hearing about such cases. By giving everything they ask for and over-pampering them, children get used to praise. When they are scolded by their parents even once, they become deeply distressed and take their own lives. Parents should thoroughly study the mental state of today's children and students. Praising them for good deeds and scolding them for bad deeds is necessary. Children should not be burdened until they are about 5 years old. They should be shown love and affection through games, songs, and our behavior. Basic awareness about the world should be instilled in them through short stories and songs. Children should be kept away from TVs and mobile phones. Their attention should be turned towards knowledge through pictures in books. Clear pronunciation should be practiced. Interest in dance and music should be encouraged. Avoid activities like skating and swimming until they are just two or three years old. After 6 years, children need to be made aware of their rights and wrongs and guided on the right path. Instead, by constantly praising them no matter what they do, children unknowingly enter a comfort and sensitive zone. By not letting them go out in the sun, not letting them get wet in the rain, and keeping them away from dust and dirt, they are made to live in an artificial world. As a result, they cannot bear the slightest trouble and lose their mental strength. If a small problem arises, they become depressed and resort to extreme measures like suicide. Therefore, parents should be aware of this and act wisely. When children make mistakes, they should be corrected with love and affection, and they should be made to realize their mistakes.
